Most guys, when they look at a woman, and she looks back, what they do is they immediatly look away. This is a low-status behavior pattern wich is actually built into you. But if you wanna come across as a strong, confident and interesting guy, this is what you gotta do: Keep the eye contact. Don't look away first. It communicates that your not intimidated by her and that you're a guy who goes after what he wants.
Don't just have a blank expression either, give a little smile or that sexy look I know you've practiced in front of the mirror. It helps. If you wave at her or just say "Hi" to a hot girl your crossing on the street, it immediatly tells your not like every other wussy guy out there.
The worst example of this, wich is actually very common to see, is when a guy looks at a hot girl, she looks back, and he immediatly turns away. He probably thinks to himself "damn did she just look at me???" and raises his head again to check. Then when he realizes she's actually was and still is looking at him he will look away again immediatly. That comunicates that your a wuss, TWICE. Your chance with her is definitely blown, so don't do it.
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